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Children, custody and access in Ireland

Children who live with abuse are affected even when they are not hurt themselves. There is help for them, and for you as a parent.

This is general information, not legal advice. Each service was checked against its own website on 7 November 2026. Rules change: read what the service itself says before you decide.

Who can help

  • Tusla Family Support and Family Resource Centres

    Local family support from Tusla, including family support workers, counselling and Family Resource Centres. Some services specialise in domestic violence.

    Who it is for Families and individuals who need help, for example during separation, abuse or money problems.

    First step Contact your local Child and Family Support Network Coordinator or a Family Resource Centre near you (both listed on the Tusla site).

    Good to know Concerns are dealt with in confidence. If a child's safety is in danger, social services or Gardaí may need to be told, but this will be discussed with you first.

    tusla.ie

  • Courts Service – guardianship, custody and access

    How to ask the District Court to decide where your children live and what contact they have with the other parent. There is no court fee.

    Who it is for Parents and guardians who need a court decision about guardianship, custody or access for their children.

    First step Fill in the 'Application in relation to arrangements for children' form and file it at the District Court office where you or the other parent lives or works.

    Good to know The other parent is sent a copy of your application. If your address must stay private, get advice before you file. Tell staff if it is urgent.

    courts.ie

  • Legal Aid Board – custody, access and maintenance

    State legal advice and court representation on custody, access, guardianship and maintenance for your children.

    Who it is for Parents who need help with arrangements for their children and who qualify for legal aid on income and means.

    First step Contact your local Law Centre, or apply online on the Legal Aid Board website.

    Good to know Most people pay a contribution. If you cannot afford it, you can ask the Law Centre about having it waived.

    legalaidboard.ie

  • Childline (for children and young people)

    A free, private service where children and young people can talk about anything, including problems at home, by phone or online chat, 24 hours a day.

    Who it is for Children and young people.

    First step Call Childline or use the live chat at childline.ie. You only need to give a first name or nickname and your age.

    Good to know Since 1 November 2026 calls are recorded and kept for 30 days. If you share personal details and are in danger, Childline may tell the Gardaí or Tusla.

    childline.ie

  • Barnardos – domestic abuse information for young people

    Plain information for young people about domestic abuse at home or in their own relationships, and where to get help. The page has a quick-exit button.

    Who it is for Young people who are worried about domestic abuse in their own life or in the life of someone they care about.

    First step Read the page. If you are worried or not safe, talk to someone you trust.

    barnardos.ie

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